The holidays can be such a busy time for so many of us. Between Thanksgiving, Black Friday shopping, and holiday events, there never seems to be enough hours in the day when you’re a busy woman. Everyone requests your presence someplace. Everyone wants to catch up. Where does that leave time for you and your needs?
Whether you are single, boo’d up, or married, touch is important. Most of us find ourselves at opposite ends of the touching spectrum. We’re either doing a lot of touching or none at all. And we’re talking about hugs here. We’re talking about intimacy!
The most fun way to engage in sexy touch is having an orgasm. Yes, an orgasm! Did you know that orgasms are healthy for your mental and physical health as they diminish stress and anxiety?
Partner or no partner, there are many health benefits to be found in the bliss of intimate time. Imagine how stress free and glowing you’re going to look in all those holiday pictures!
Here are 4 tips on how to make sure you’re maintaining your sexy during the holidays.
1. Start Experimenting
The holidays are the perfect time to gift yourself or your partner a new toy or bedroom accessory. Maybe try a new position or give roleplaying a try. Now is the perfect time to be a sexy elf!
2. Consider a (safe) Holiday Hookup
If you’re single and ready to mingle, of course! Holiday parties, spiked eggnog, and meetings under the mistletoe can make us feel more festive than normal. Now might be the right time to shoot your shot with that special someone. Just be sure to practice safe sex and have fun!
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3. Take the Pressure off Yourself
Yes, the destination (aka the orgasm) is the point but enjoy the journey. Don’t get caught up in trying to make it last all night. Allow yourself to use this time to truly unwind and celebrate your and/or their pleasure. Cuddle while watching a movie. Dance while making dinner. Spend the day sending sexy texts. Undress them with your eyes at the holiday party. Get creative with it!
4. Make Time for it
It doesn’t matter if you have a partner or if you’re single. If you find yourself not having time to be intimate, schedule it like you would any other event. Setting a concrete time can give you something to look forward to after a long day and can amp up the excitement.
In a season that can be so dedicated to others, we so often forget to dedicate time to ourselves. But now that you have a few tips, how will you spice up the holidays during the busiest time of the year?
Let us know in the comments!
4 thoughts on “4 Tips on How to Maintain your Sexy During the Holidays”
I have no time period. I feel like between work And kids I’m exhausted. They should have a mental day for sexy time lol
So I’m single any suggestions on where to meet these holiday hookups safely? I don’t want to do online sites.
I would love to experiment more with toys but my partner is against it. I went to bring up the conversation again but afraid I will get rejected and she will think I’m a freak. Any tips?
This is a bit off topic but perhaps you can do a post on spicing up positions when you have some extra cushion lol. I’m a curvy mom too with a fupa and feel a bit insecure about the baby weight. Can you give tips on positions that will make me feel confident with intimacy?