Ask the Virgo Girl: I am Being Judged for my Life Choices

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Missy B. Salick. Virgo Girl’s Editor-in-Chief is passionate about helping creative’s and small businesses turn their passion into profit. She just launched The Virgo Girl Coaching, an extension of the lifestyle blog The Virgo Girl. 

Here, she shares advice on all things business. 

DEAR THE VIRGO GIRL,

Help me…I’m so overwhelmed and frustrated with life. I’m 29, not married, no kids, no friends and I’m living in the big city of New York. I work part-time as a sales associate, but outside of that, I don’t really do much. I constantly feel like I’m being judged for my life choices or lack thereof. I’m overweight and socially awkward. I have so many goals that I want to tackle this year, fitness, new job, meet someone special, write a book, move into a better apartment. I just don’t know where to start or how to balance it all. Where do I even begin?

Advice from Missy: Life can be overwhelming especially if you don’t take time to self-assess it.   Having realistic and measurable goal(s) is what helps bring clarity to your life.  To begin, you need to make a list of priorities that you feel are important for you.  This should include family, health, a social life, etc. because balance and consistency are key.  Once you have your list, then you should create a chart with dates, detailed explanations, expectations and deadlines to help you keep track of what you are doing (or not doing).  The reality is, you are at a point in your life where you want clarity and purpose and in order to do that you must (visually) create a schedule of your life so that you make time to create your dreams (not sleep on them).

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