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Dear xoSelf,
I am too busy for sex…I know that is a cliche but it’s true. My husband is constantly on my back to be intimate but he doesn’t understand that I work all the time and while we don’t have kids I am trying to grow my business. So I work all day and come home to shower and go to work on my business. I try to give him attention once or twice a week but it’s never enough. I’m starting to resent coming home now because I really just want to be focused. Am I being selfish?
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A: While it’s important to go after your dreams it’s equally important that you spend time with your significant other. Why? Because like your business, your partner is also an investment. After all, you shouldn’t put your eggs all in one basket, right?
Related article: How to Have More Time in a 24-hour Day
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Dr. Walter Hidalgo is an educator and coach. He has a master’s of arts in Church History and Sociology from Union Theological Seminary at Columbia University and a doctorate from New York Theological Seminary where his focus was on the intersectionality between Hip-hop culture and socio-spiritual movements. He has taught in universities, high schools, prisons, not-for-profit organizations, and faith-basedinstitutions from all over the world. And finally, he is the author of the critically acclaimed book, “Beyond the Four Walls: The Rising Ministry and Spirituality of Hip-hop” where he
has worked with numerous Hip-hop artists, educators, and youth from all over the world to